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Steven B. Wiley, The Lincoln Leadership Institute at Gettysburg

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Steve Wiley is the founder and president of The Lincoln Leadership Institute at Gettysburg. He is also an entrepreneur, author, and highly acclaimed speaker who has influenced and entertained tens of thousands of top executives from around the world. Without exception, he receives the highest ratings possible from his audiences.

His business experience includes the founding of three companies: two international franchise organizations and a national chain of fleet-management centers. He has successfully negotiated multimillion dollar funding agreements for his own companies with some of the top venture-capital organizations in the world. His strong leadership ability has earned him recognition in top publications, including Venture magazine, USA Today, and Entrepreneur magazine.

Steve’s speaking experience includes three years as national spokesperson for the Quaker Oats/Pritikin Longevity Centers, for whom he has been featured in television commercials and advertisements in the Wall Street Journal, Chicago Tribune, Los Angeles Times and New York Times. Over the past 10 years he has conducted thousands of seminars on negotiation, sales leadership, and wellness for numerous public- and private-sector organizations.

Currently, he is president of The Lincoln Leadership Institute at Gettysburg and the founder of the Institute’s Communicating with Executive Presence program as well as its Transformational Journey from Gettysburg leadership development experience.

For more information, visit www.lincolnleadershipinstitute.com.

Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”

– Madam C.J. Walker

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes.”

– Marcel Proust

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

The critical ingredient is getting off your butt and doing something.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

The journey is the reward.”

– Greg Norman

Traveling is one way of lengthening life, at least in appearance.”

– Benjamin Franklin

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

‎The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.”

– Charles Darwin

A person who learns to juggle six balls will be more skilled than the person who never tries to juggle more than three.”

– Marilyn vos Savant

A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.”

– Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more.
 If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”

– Oprah Winfrey

Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog it’s too dark to read.”

– Groucho Marx

Destiny is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”

– William Jennings Bryan

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

A man without a smiling face
 should not open a shop.”

– Chinese Proverb

The quality of your life is directly related to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably live with.”

– Tony Robbins

The important thing is not being afraid to take a chance. The greatest failure is to not try.”

– Debbi Fields, Mrs. Fields Cookies

The young man knows the rules, but the old man knows the exceptions.”

– Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., U.S. Supreme Court justice

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently.”

– Steve Jobs, Apple, Inc.

My goal was to tell the life side of the story. We have become a nation of voyeurs that expect sensationalism, and that offends me.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

Spend the afternoon. You can’t take it with you.”

– Annie Dillard

As each woman realizes her power, she transforms the world.”

– Patrice Wynne, WomanSpirit Sourcebook

The best hobbies are the ones that take us furthest from our primary occupation.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.”

– Jimi Hendrix

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

– President Calvin Coolidge

‎No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.”

– Charles Dickens

Passion makes perfect.”

– Eugene Biro

I always maintained that the greatest obstacle in life isn’t danger, it’s boredom. The battle against it is responsible for most of the events in the world — good or ill.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

Treat the attainment of happiness in the same way an entrepreneur would approach building a business — with a vision, plan, goals, and a systematic approach.”

– Ted Leonsis

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

– Leonardo da Vinci

Destiny is a name often given in retrospect to choices that had dramatic consequences.”

– J.K. Rowling

‎That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

The dove descending breaks the air / With flame of inkandescent terror.”

– T.S. Eliott

The world I believed in, back in my most innocent, uninformed, childish mind—is real.”

– Martha Beck

No longer talk at all about the kind of man a good man ought to be, but be such.”

– Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

Things don’t change. You change your way of looking, that’s all.”

– Carlos Castaneda

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.”

– Audre Lorde

Inspiration and genius — one and the same.”

– Victor Hugo

How do you stay resilient? It’s about momentum. Like riding a bicycle. If you stop you fall over. So I keep pedaling.”

– Diane Lane

Never never never never give up.”

– Winston Churchill

Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’”

– Brian Tracy

The fixity of a habit is generally in direct proportion to its absurdity.”

– Marcel Proust

If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. 
Now put foundations under them.”

– Henry David Thoreau

To follow, without halt, one aim: There’s the secret of success.”

– Anna Pavlova

Are you willing to help other people succeed even when it’s not a requirement of your job to be of assistance?”

– Steven Schussler