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Kathleen McCarthy, senior editor, Be Inkandescent magazine

A freelance editor and writer in the mental health field for the last 20 years, Kathleen McCarthy is the senior editor for Be Inkandescent Magazine, and also writes the magazine’s Parenting column.

In 2012, Kathleen became the manager of the new speakers bureau, InkandescentSpeakers.com, an international organization of small business experts that travel around the globe to provide best practices to entrepreneurs.

She also handles the editing, design, and layout for the monthly online newsletter of the American Mental Health Counselors Association.

As a freelance writer and editor, her clients have included government agencies, corporations, and universities. Before becoming a freelancer, she worked for several nonprofit associations, including the American Psychological Association, the National Association of College and University Business Officers, and the American Association for Engineering Education.

A deadline fanatic, Kathleen is zealous about the virtues of the serial comma and admires writers who can translate dense topics into artful prose. In her spare time, she likes to diagram sentences.

The mind is everything. What you think, you become.”

– Buddha

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

But all the while I was alone, the past was close behind, I seen a lot of women, but she never escaped my mind, and I just grew, tangled up in blue.”

– Bob Dylan

Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”

– Madam C.J. Walker

If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”

– Thomas Edison

If it isn’t good, let it die. If it doesn’t die, make it good.”

– Ajahn Chah

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”

– Winston Churchill

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”

– William Shakespeare

With ordinary talents and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable.”

– Sir Thomas Fowell Buxton

You only live once. But if you do it right, once is enough.”

– Mae West

I have spent a good part of my life convincing people that a blank sheet of paper is the greatest opportunity in the world, and not frightening at all.”

– Marty Skler, executive vp, Walt Disney Imagineering

It is possible to fail in many ways…while to succeed is possible only in one way.”

– Aristotle

If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.”

– John Quincy Adams

The world I believed in, back in my most innocent, uninformed, childish mind—is real.”

– Martha Beck

If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more.
 If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”

– Oprah Winfrey

My job is my hobby. I come to work to play.”

– Uli Becker, president, Reebok International

To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

Don’t think. Thinking is the enemy of creativity.”

– Ray Bradbury

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”

– Thomas Edison

Destiny is a name often given in retrospect to choices that had dramatic consequences.”

– J.K. Rowling

History is a relentless master. It has no present, only the past rushing into the future. To try to hold fast is to be swept aside.”

– John F. Kennedy

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it”

– Andrew Carnegie

When a dog runs at you, whistle for him.”

– Henry David Thoreau

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

– T.S. Eliot

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

You’ve got to be willing to crash and burn. If you’re afraid of failing, you won’t get very far.”

– Steve Jobs

Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.”

– E.B. White

If you want to be busy, keep trying to be perfect. If you want to be happy, focus on making a difference.”

– Lisa Earle McLeod

Don’t follow your dreams. Chase them.”

– Richard Dumb

Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog it’s too dark to read.”

– Groucho Marx

There’s nowhere you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be…”

– John Lennon

The dove descending breaks the air / With flame of inkandescent terror.”

– T.S. Eliott

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

– Charles R. Swindoll

Part of your destiny is to live in the zone of maximum satisfaction.”

– Martha Beck

Think of yourself as on the threshold of unparalleled success. A whole, clear, glorious life lies before you. Achieve! Achieve!”

– Andrew Carnegie

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

A diamond is a lump of coal that stuck with it.”

– Norwegian proverb

My task is really not to change myself but to become familiar with who I am.”

– Maureen Cook

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

– Anais Nin

If you do work that you love, and the work fulfills you, the rest will come.”

– Oprah Winfrey

We need to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing ship.”

– General Omar Bradley

If you do not tell the truth about yourself
, you cannot tell it about other people.”

– Virginia Woolf

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.
 Where there is love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.”

– Ella Fitzgerald

Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”

– Benjamin Disraeli

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing.”

– Maya Angelou

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

Do you have the desire to create something new; the strength of conviction to believe your creation will be successful, and the reservoir of energy necessary to thrust it into the marketplace?”

– Steven Schussler

Don’t wait for someone else to lead you to your right life; that privilege—and responsibility—is yours alone.”

– Martha Beck

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

– Dalai Lama