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Kathleen McCarthy, senior editor, Be Inkandescent magazine

A freelance editor and writer in the mental health field for the last 20 years, Kathleen McCarthy is the senior editor for Be Inkandescent Magazine, and also writes the magazine’s Parenting column.

In 2012, Kathleen became the manager of the new speakers bureau, InkandescentSpeakers.com, an international organization of small business experts that travel around the globe to provide best practices to entrepreneurs.

She also handles the editing, design, and layout for the monthly online newsletter of the American Mental Health Counselors Association.

As a freelance writer and editor, her clients have included government agencies, corporations, and universities. Before becoming a freelancer, she worked for several nonprofit associations, including the American Psychological Association, the National Association of College and University Business Officers, and the American Association for Engineering Education.

A deadline fanatic, Kathleen is zealous about the virtues of the serial comma and admires writers who can translate dense topics into artful prose. In her spare time, she likes to diagram sentences.

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

– Albert Einstein

They who give have all things. They who withhold have nothing.”

– Hindu Proverb

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost.”

– Robert H. Schuller

Success is the necessary misfortune of life, but it is only to the very unfortunate that it comes early.”

– Anthony Trollope

Permanence, perseverance and persistence in spite of all obstacles distinguishes the strong soul from the weak.”

– Thomas Carlyle

Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’”

– Brian Tracy

A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.”

– Bob Dylan

I find out what the world needs, then I proceed to invent.”

– Thomas Edison

The best reason to start an organization is to create a product or service to make the world a better place.”

– Guy Kawasaki

Never cut what you can untie.”

– Joseph Joubert

Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

– Nelson Mandela

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which obstacles vanish.”

– John Quincy Adams

Find somebody to be successful for. Raise their hopes. Think of their needs.”

– Barack Obama

Destiny is a name often given in retrospect to choices that had dramatic consequences.”

– J.K. Rowling

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

I’m not afraid of storms,
for I’m learning to sail my ship.”

– Louisa May Alcott

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes.”

– Marcel Proust

Who cares if my glass is half empty or half full; I still have something to drink.”

– Optimism rules

To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

I was taught at a very young age that you can do whatever you want to, but you have to make it happen — not just talk about it.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise.”

– Robert Fritz

When you are asked if you can do a job, tell ‘em, ‘Certainly I can!’ Then get busy and find out how to do it.”

– Theodore Roosevelt

Persist and persevere, and you will find most things that are attainable, possible.”

– Lord Chesterfield

The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware.”

– Henry Miller

That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”

– Friedrich Nietzsche

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

– Leonardo da Vinci

No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it”

– Andrew Carnegie

A man without a smiling face
 should not open a shop.”

– Chinese Proverb

There are children playing in the street who could solve some of my top problems in physics, because they have modes of sensory perception that I lost long ago.”

– J. Robert Oppenheimer

A man who strikes first admits that his ideas have given out.”

– Chinese Proverb

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.”

– Audre Lorde

History is a relentless master. It has no present, only the past rushing into the future. To try to hold fast is to be swept aside.”

– John F. Kennedy

Tolerance and patience should not be read as signs of weakness. They are signs of strength.”

– The Dalai Lama

Never never never never give up.”

– Winston Churchill

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.”

– Christopher Morley

I may not be able to change what takes place, but I can always choose to change my thinking.”

– Michelle Sedas

The goal of Life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with nature.”

– Joseph Cambell

I can’t go back to yesterday—because I was a different person then.”

– Lewis Carroll

Running that first shop taught me business is not financial science; it’s about trading.”

– Anita Roddick, founder, The Body Shop

As each woman realizes her power, she transforms the world.”

– Patrice Wynne, WomanSpirit Sourcebook

I don’t do very well without fear. There needs to be a part of me saying, ‘That’s going to fail,’ so I can prove myself wrong.”

– Harry Potter's Daniel Radcliffe

Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth. Tame the dragon and the gift is yours.”

– Noela Evans

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

Let us seize the day and the opportunity and strive for that greatness of spirit that measures life not by its disappointments but by its possibilities.”

– W.E.B. Du Bois

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

– Abraham Lincoln