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Pam Ray, Lobbyist

COLUMN = GOVERNMENT RELATIONS

Pam has more than three decades of in-depth experience in policy and politics, with expertise in congressional budget/appropriations and federal grant programs.

Her select policy experience includes housing and community development, housing finance, transit/transportation, taxes, and trade.

With a focus on bridging the knowledge gap between elected officials and their constituents, Pam has achieved success in her own government relations business for 16 years and for elected officials in the US Senate, US Senate Committee on Banking, Housing & Urban Affairs (1989-95), and the NYS Senate Federal Affairs Office (1986-1989).

For more information, visit www.pamrayllc.com.

As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

– Brihadaranyaka Upanishad

If you would create something,
 you must be something.”

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

The journey is the reward.”

– Greg Norman

Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. 
Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow.”

– Mary Jean Irion

To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”

– William Shakespeare

I’ve come to confirm that one’s title, even that of president, says little about how well one’s life has been led. No matter how much you’ve done, or how successful you’ve been, there’s always more to do, to learn, and to achieve.”

– Barack Obama

The quality of your life is directly related to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably live with.”

– Tony Robbins

The music is all around us. All you have to do is listen.”

– August Rush

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

Passion makes perfect.”

– Eugene Biro

Are you willing to help other people succeed even when it’s not a requirement of your job to be of assistance?”

– Steven Schussler

If you think you are too small to make a difference, try going to sleep with a mosquito in your room.”

– A wisdomism

Anything not worth doing well is not worth doing.”

– Warren Buffett

Things don’t change. You change your way of looking, that’s all.”

– Carlos Castaneda

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Sometimes the dreams that come true are the dreams you never even knew you had.”

– Alice Sebold, The Lovely Bones

Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ‘Make Me Feel Important.’ Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.”

– Mary Kay Ash

Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

– Helen Keller

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

– Albert Einstein

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.”

– Audre Lorde

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

– Abraham Lincoln

If you were independently wealthy and never had to work a day in your life, would you still choose to spend your time attempting to become a successful entrepreneur?”

– Steven Schussler

Let us seize the day and the opportunity and strive for that greatness of spirit that measures life not by its disappointments but by its possibilities.”

– W.E.B. Du Bois

If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise.”

– Robert Fritz

Practice kindness all day to everybody and you will realize you’re already in heaven now.”

– Jack Kerouac

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

As each woman realizes her power, she transforms the world.”

– Patrice Wynne, WomanSpirit Sourcebook

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. Hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow.”

– Langston Hughes

Your own words are the bricks and mortar
of the dreams you want to realize.
 The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.”

– Sonia Croquette

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes.”

– Marcel Proust

He who knows he has enough is rich.”

– Tao Te Ching

If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”

– Anna Quindlen

He who wants to tear down a house must be prepared to rebuild it.”

– African Proverb

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

– President Calvin Coolidge

Whosoever knows how to fight well is not angry. Whosoever knows how to conquer enemies does not fight them.”

– Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

We are perfectionists. We are hungry to work all the time. We are entertained by every aspect of business and we never want to stop working.”

– Suzy Welch

Confidence is the most important thing you can teach someone… if you can teach them confidence, you don’t have to teach them anything else.”

– Vin Diesel

As each woman realizes her power, she transforms the world.”

– Patrice Wynne, WomanSpirit Sourcebook

It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.”

– Charles Darwin

Why am I whispering when I have something to say?”

– Eve Ensler

The young man knows the rules, but the old man knows the exceptions.”

– Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., U.S. Supreme Court justice

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.”

– Jimi Hendrix

Do not be afraid of mistakes, providing you do not make the same one twice.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt