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Carmen Wu, CRPC®, Financial Adviser, Egan Berger & Weiner LLC

COLUMN = RETIREMENT

Carmen Wu, CRPC®, partnered with Egan, Berger & Weiner, LLC in August 2007. She brings 25 years of experience in the financial industry, and has served as financial adviser, branch manager, regional manager, chief operations officer and vice president of a regional banking institution.

A graduate of the University of Southern California, with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science/International Relations, Martinez is an active member of the Rotary Club of McLean, a community service organization, and has served on the board of directors for five years.

She is also an active member of the Financial Planning Association and the Financial Services Institute, and is currently enrolled in the College for Financial Planning.

Raised in California, Martinez moved to the east coast in 1987 and now resides in Alexandria, VA. The oldest of nine children, she enjoys spending time with her 19 nephews and nieces. In her spare time she pursues one of her lifelong passions for art by drawing and painting portraits, landscapes and still life.

For more information, visit www.ebwfinancialnews.com. And send her an email at: cmartinez@ebwllc.com.

No longer talk at all about the kind of man a good man ought to be, but be such.”

– Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

‎That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

My task is really not to change myself but to become familiar with who I am.”

– Maureen Cook

Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”

– Christopher Robin to Pooh

We are not meant to resolve all contradictions, but to live with them and rise above them.”

– William Blake

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ‘Make Me Feel Important.’ Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.”

– Mary Kay Ash

The good ideas are all hammered out in agony by individuals, not spewed out by groups.”

– Charles Brower, Advertising Hall of Fame

A man who strikes first admits that his ideas have given out.”

– Chinese Proverb

Women once had the goal of being Superwoman; I think most of us now simply strive to have a super day.”

– Author, Activist Lee Woodruff

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”

– Thomas Edison

When I was younger I thought success was being a star, driving nice cars, having groupies. But today I think the most important thing is to live your life with integrity.

– Ellen DeGeneres

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

It is possible to fail in many ways…while to succeed is possible only in one way.”

– Aristotle

Inspiration and genius — one and the same.”

– Victor Hugo

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”

– Francesca Reigle

The critical ingredient is getting off your butt and doing something.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. Hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow.”

– Langston Hughes

Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”

– Benjamin Disraeli

That man is richest whose pleasures are the cheapest.”

– Henry David Thoreau

Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’”

– Brian Tracy

Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. 
Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow.”

– Mary Jean Irion

Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.”

– E.B. White

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”

– William Shakespeare

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly,
 what is essential is invisible to the eye.”

– Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

My goal was to tell the life side of the story. We have become a nation of voyeurs that expect sensationalism, and that offends me.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

We never know how high we are
 till we are called to rise;
 And then, if we are true to plan,
 Our statures touch the skies.”

– Emily Dickinson

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

– Abraham Lincoln

Sometimes the dreams that come true are the dreams you never even knew you had.”

– Alice Sebold, The Lovely Bones

Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost.”

– Robert H. Schuller

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leon Joseph Suenens

Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”

– Seneca

Remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you’re stumped, because sometimes you really can’t be expected to handle everything alone.”

– Martha Beck

I may not be able to change what takes place, but I can always choose to change my thinking.”

– Michelle Sedas

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”

– Mark Twain

If you think you are too small to make a difference, try going to sleep with a mosquito in your room.”

– A wisdomism

Many people prefer to play it safe when it comes to business matters. Are you willing to take risks in the pursuit of entrepreneurial success?”

– Steven Schussler

There’s nowhere you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be…”

– John Lennon

If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.”

– Jesse Jackson

You don’t go into a field that requires cracking people’s heads open or operating on something as delicate as the spinal cord unless you are comfortable with taking risks.”

– Dr. Ben Carson

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

It is easier to fight for one’s principles than to live up to them.”

– Alfred Adler

Do not say, ‘why were the former days better than these,’ for it is not from wisdom that you ask this.”

– Ecclesiastes, 7:10

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

– Anais Nin

If you do work that you love, and the work fulfills you, the rest will come.”

– Oprah Winfrey

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which obstacles vanish.”

– John Quincy Adams

They who give have all things. They who withhold have nothing.”

– Hindu Proverb

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

– Charles R. Swindoll