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Laura Berger, Executive Coach, The Berdéo Group

COLUMN = EXECUTIVE COACHING

An executive advisor and founder of The Berdéo Group, Laura Berger has 15 years’ experience as a consultant advising leadership in the areas of global operations management and strategy, project and change management, solution development, and implementation. She is a confidant of CEOs and senior executives who consistently realize their potential as leaders to see their companies flourish.

Having worked with many Fortune 500 companies, her clients include leaders at JPMorgan Chase, State Farm Insurance, United Airlines, General Motors, Wm. Wrigley Jr. Company, McDonalds Corporation, American Hospital Association, Leo Burnett Worldwide, Starcom MediaVest, and Walt Disney World. She takes great pride in assisting captains of business to bring value and creativity to their organizations.

Laura is generous in spirit when sharing what and whom she knows. She helps clients to achieve clarity and weigh alternatives, while they see and own obstacles and opportunities from the outside looking inward. Her ease and zeal for building lasting relationships, acquaintances, and productive introductions between people is her personal trademark. She has stretched her own spirit and will to combine her passions with her professional pursuits, and she shows others how to live true to their core.

Laura exemplifies this commitment to the life path in a book she is co-writing with her husband, Glen Tibaldeo, to be released in the near future. The book chronicles the humorous side of the successes and challenges they experienced living in the remote jungles of Costa Rica.

For more information, visit www.berdeogroup.com.

‎That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”

– Winston Churchill

The world I believed in, back in my most innocent, uninformed, childish mind—is real.”

– Martha Beck

A man without a smiling face
 should not open a shop.”

– Chinese Proverb

If you wish success in life, make perseverance your bosom friend, experience your wise counselor, caution your elder brother, and hope your guardian genius.”

– Joseph Addison

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.”

– Edgar W. Howe

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leon Joseph Suenens

Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”

– Christopher Robin to Pooh

This is the age when magical technologies make more and more radically fun ideas plausible, even easy. You’re only limited by your creativity.”

– Martha Beck

Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become.”

– Steve Jobs

My task is really not to change myself but to become familiar with who I am.”

– Maureen Cook

‎Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way.”

– Booker T. Washington

Traveling is one way of lengthening life, at least in appearance.”

– Benjamin Franklin

Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

– Nelson Mandela

History is a relentless master. It has no present, only the past rushing into the future. To try to hold fast is to be swept aside.”

– John F. Kennedy

I don’t do very well without fear. There needs to be a part of me saying, ‘That’s going to fail,’ so I can prove myself wrong.”

– Harry Potter's Daniel Radcliffe

Letting go of expectations is a ticket to peace. It allows us to ride over every crisis—small or large—like a beach ball on water.”

– Martha Beck

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

‎No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.”

– Charles Dickens

Look at everything as though you were
seeing it either for the first or last time.
Then your time on earth will be filled with glory.”

– Betty Smith

That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

– T.S. Eliot

As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

– Brihadaranyaka Upanishad

The mind is everything. What you think, you become.”

– Buddha

Who cares if my glass is half empty or half full; I still have something to drink.”

– Optimism rules

Whosoever knows how to fight well is not angry. Whosoever knows how to conquer enemies does not fight them.”

– Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

I find out what the world needs, then I proceed to invent.”

– Thomas Edison

You take your life in your own hands, and what happens?
 A terrible thing: no one to blame.”

– Erica Jong

You often meet your fate on the road you take to avoid it.”

– Goldie Hawn

By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

– Sri Aurobindo

Do you believe it is important to give back some portion of your wealth to support charitable causes?”

– Steven Schussler

A warrior cannot complain or regret anything. His life is an endless challenge, and challenges cannot possibly be good or bad. Challenges are simply challenges.”

– Carlos Castaneda

How do you stay resilient? It’s about momentum. Like riding a bicycle. If you stop you fall over. So I keep pedaling.”

– Diane Lane

Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”

– Benjamin Disraeli

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

No matter how difficult and painful it may be, nothing sounds as good to the soul as the truth.”

– Martha Beck, from "Leaving the Saints"

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”

– Anna Quindlen

Running that first shop taught me business is not financial science; it’s about trading.”

– Anita Roddick, founder, The Body Shop

Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”

– Seneca

My goal was to tell the life side of the story. We have become a nation of voyeurs that expect sensationalism, and that offends me.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

You don’t go into a field that requires cracking people’s heads open or operating on something as delicate as the spinal cord unless you are comfortable with taking risks.”

– Dr. Ben Carson

Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.”

– Robert Frost

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which obstacles vanish.”

– John Quincy Adams

If you were independently wealthy and never had to work a day in your life, would you still choose to spend your time attempting to become a successful entrepreneur?”

– Steven Schussler

With ordinary talents and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable.”

– Sir Thomas Fowell Buxton