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Lyndsey DePalma, founder, House of Steep

COLUMN = HEALTHY LIVING

Lyndsey DePalma is the founder of new Arlington, VA tea house and reflexology studio—about the treasure that is tea, the power of reflexology to heal and harmonize, and her entrepreneurial dreams for the future.

Before coming up with the concept for House of Steep, the shop’s creator Lyndsey DePalma wanted something for herself—to relax, and just be, for a while each day.
Not satisfied with any of the existing answers and armed with some entrepreneurial hard-wiring and a respect for natural healing, Lyndsey left her corporate career in human resources to bridge the gap.

A firm believer in present living, this small business owner also publishes her thoughts and ideas on relaxation and a peaceful lifestyle at placidhouse.com.

Since October of 2010, House of Steep has been taking up residence in Lyndsey’s heart and will become the ultimate destination for busy corporate citizens, casual connections, bridal parties, street shoppers, believers in alternative healing, moms and grandmoms, yogis and yoginis, consultants, crafters, lovers, and the rest of us.

For more information, visit www.houseofsteep.com.

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

I always maintained that the greatest obstacle in life isn’t danger, it’s boredom. The battle against it is responsible for most of the events in the world — good or ill.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

Your own words are the bricks and mortar
of the dreams you want to realize.
 The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.”

– Sonia Croquette

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

This is the age when magical technologies make more and more radically fun ideas plausible, even easy. You’re only limited by your creativity.”

– Martha Beck

Nobody talks about entrepreneurship as survival, but that’s exactly what nurtures creative thinking.”

– Anita Roddick, founder, The Body Shop

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ‘Make Me Feel Important.’ Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.”

– Mary Kay Ash

You must have chaos within you, to create a dancing star.”

– Frederic Nietzsche

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing.”

– Maya Angelou

4oz tequila + 1oz TripleSec + 2oz lime juice + 1oz simple syrup (sugar=water), 1 cup crushed ice. Shake + dance around the kitchen.

– Avenida Margarita

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

The music is all around us. All you have to do is listen.”

– August Rush

Persist and persevere, and you will find most things that are attainable, possible.”

– Lord Chesterfield

You’ve got to be willing to crash and burn. If you’re afraid of failing, you won’t get very far.”

– Steve Jobs

There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.”

– Leonard Cohen

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

– Joseph Campbell

Women once had the goal of being Superwoman; I think most of us now simply strive to have a super day.”

– Author, Activist Lee Woodruff

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

– T.S. Eliot

Never never never never give up.”

– Winston Churchill

Death is to lose the earth you know, for greater knowing; to lose the life you have, for greater life; to leave the friends you loved, for greater loving; to find a land more kind than home, more large than earth.”

– Thomas Wolfe

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

Whatever you do may seem insignificant, but it is most important that you do it.”

– Gandi

Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

– Mary Oliver

Ripeness is all.”

– William Shakespeare

You don’t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.”

– L.J. Smith

Friendship is the only cement that will hold the world together.”

– Woodrow Wilson

The fixity of a habit is generally in direct proportion to its absurdity.”

– Marcel Proust

The only way to compel men to speak good of us is to do it.”

– Voltaire

A people who mean to be their Governors must arm themselves with the power which knowledge gives.”

– James Madison

Think of yourself as on the threshold of unparalleled success. A whole, clear, glorious life lies before you. Achieve! Achieve!”

– Andrew Carnegie

A person who learns to juggle six balls will be more skilled than the person who never tries to juggle more than three.”

– Marilyn vos Savant

Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

– Nelson Mandela

If you wish success in life, make perseverance your bosom friend, experience your wise counselor, caution your elder brother, and hope your guardian genius.”

– Joseph Addison

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

– Leonardo da Vinci

Look at everything as though you were
seeing it either for the first or last time.
Then your time on earth will be filled with glory.”

– Betty Smith

Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. 
Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow.”

– Mary Jean Irion

Never cut what you can untie.”

– Joseph Joubert

The less effort, the faster and more powerful you will be.”

– Bruce Lee

Why am I whispering when I have something to say?”

– Eve Ensler

Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become.”

– Steve Jobs

Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”

– Madam C.J. Walker

My goal was to tell the life side of the story. We have become a nation of voyeurs that expect sensationalism, and that offends me.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

Nothing is a mistake. There’s no win and no fail. There’s only make.”

– Corita Kent

If people like you they’ll listen to you; if they trust you, they’ll do business with you.”

– Zig Ziglar

Do you believe it is important to give back some portion of your wealth to support charitable causes?”

– Steven Schussler

The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

If you think you are too small to make a difference, try going to sleep with a mosquito in your room.”

– A wisdomism

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK