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Lyndsey DePalma, founder, House of Steep

COLUMN = HEALTHY LIVING

Lyndsey DePalma is the founder of new Arlington, VA tea house and reflexology studio—about the treasure that is tea, the power of reflexology to heal and harmonize, and her entrepreneurial dreams for the future.

Before coming up with the concept for House of Steep, the shop’s creator Lyndsey DePalma wanted something for herself—to relax, and just be, for a while each day.
Not satisfied with any of the existing answers and armed with some entrepreneurial hard-wiring and a respect for natural healing, Lyndsey left her corporate career in human resources to bridge the gap.

A firm believer in present living, this small business owner also publishes her thoughts and ideas on relaxation and a peaceful lifestyle at placidhouse.com.

Since October of 2010, House of Steep has been taking up residence in Lyndsey’s heart and will become the ultimate destination for busy corporate citizens, casual connections, bridal parties, street shoppers, believers in alternative healing, moms and grandmoms, yogis and yoginis, consultants, crafters, lovers, and the rest of us.

For more information, visit www.houseofsteep.com.

When I was younger I thought success was being a star, driving nice cars, having groupies. But today I think the most important thing is to live your life with integrity.

– Ellen DeGeneres

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leon Joseph Suenens

If you want to be busy, keep trying to be perfect. If you want to be happy, focus on making a difference.”

– Lisa Earle McLeod

You must have chaos within you, to create a dancing star.”

– Frederic Nietzsche

The young man knows the rules, but the old man knows the exceptions.”

– Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., U.S. Supreme Court justice

Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”

– Madam C.J. Walker

We need to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing ship.”

– General Omar Bradley

When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.”

– Jimi Hendrix

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”

– Mark Twain

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi

You take your life in your own hands, and what happens?
 A terrible thing: no one to blame.”

– Erica Jong

Don’t wait for someone else to lead you to your right life; that privilege—and responsibility—is yours alone.”

– Martha Beck

If you would create something,
 you must be something.”

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

We are perfectionists. We are hungry to work all the time. We are entertained by every aspect of business and we never want to stop working.”

– Suzy Welch

Do not say, ‘why were the former days better than these,’ for it is not from wisdom that you ask this.”

– Ecclesiastes, 7:10

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

– Abraham Lincoln

Destiny is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”

– William Jennings Bryan

The critical ingredient is getting off your butt and doing something.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

He who knows he has enough is rich.”

– Tao Te Ching

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

– Anais Nin

‎That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

Your own words are the bricks and mortar
of the dreams you want to realize.
 The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.”

– Sonia Croquette

Find somebody to be successful for. Raise their hopes. Think of their needs.”

– Barack Obama

Let us seize the day and the opportunity and strive for that greatness of spirit that measures life not by its disappointments but by its possibilities.”

– W.E.B. Du Bois

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

‎The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid.”

– Basil King

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

– Albert Einstein

Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”

– Benjamin Disraeli

If you do work that you love, and the work fulfills you, the rest will come.”

– Oprah Winfrey

Nobody talks about entrepreneurship as survival, but that’s exactly what nurtures creative thinking.”

– Anita Roddick, founder, The Body Shop

Why am I whispering when I have something to say?”

– Eve Ensler

But all the while I was alone, the past was close behind, I seen a lot of women, but she never escaped my mind, and I just grew, tangled up in blue.”

– Bob Dylan

We are all of us born with a letter inside us, and that only if we are true to ourselves, may we be allowed to read it before we die.”

– Douglas Coupland

Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

We are not meant to resolve all contradictions, but to live with them and rise above them.”

– William Blake

Everyone is a mirror image of yourself—your own thinking coming back at you.”

– Byron Katie

Most people never pick up the phone and call. Most people never ask, and that’s what separates the people who do things from the people who just dream about them.”

– Steve Jobs

Do you believe it is important to give back some portion of your wealth to support charitable causes?”

– Steven Schussler

A warrior cannot complain or regret anything. His life is an endless challenge, and challenges cannot possibly be good or bad. Challenges are simply challenges.”

– Carlos Castaneda

The true entrepreneur is a doer, not a dreamer.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

A person who learns to juggle six balls will be more skilled than the person who never tries to juggle more than three.”

– Marilyn vos Savant

We never know how high we are
 till we are called to rise;
 And then, if we are true to plan,
 Our statures touch the skies.”

– Emily Dickinson