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Stefan C. Nicholas, Attorney

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Stefan C. Nicholas is a director and chair of Jackson & Campbell’s Estates and Trusts practice group and a member of the Business Law practice group. He has extensive experience in drafting wills, trusts, and all ancillary documents in connection with estate and gift-tax planning, as well as asset-protection planning, including both on- and off-shore asset-protection trusts and the use of corporate entities. Stefan also has extensive experience with sophisticated wealth transfer techniques such as grantor retained interest trusts, qualified personal residence trusts, and defective grantor trusts.

In addition, Stefan specializes in developing exit-planning strategies for business owners, and has counseled clients on estate planning, business succession planning, and asset-protection planning with an emphasis on managing the tax impact that liquidity events have on a client’s personal assets. He has guided clients on completing mergers, acquisitions, and divestitures, and has negotiated partnership, management, shareholder, employment, and confidentiality agreements on behalf of numerous clients.

Stefan earned his JD from the University of Virginia School of Law, where he was a member of the Moore Society of International Law and the Black Law Students Association. Before that, Stefan earned his master’s in Foreign Affairs from the University of Virginia Wilson School of Foreign Affairs. He received a BA in International Relations from Georgetown University, which he followed with academic stints in Prague in the Czech Republic and Berlin, Germany, where he earned a Certificate of German Language and Culture from the Goethe Institute.

Stefan is admitted to practice law in the District of Columbia and the State of New York.

Stefan is a member of the American Bar Association and the Estates and Trusts Bar of the District of Columbia. He is a member of the Wealth Counsel and the Business Enterprise Institute, and is currently treasurer and a member of the board of directors for DC Vote and the chairman of the board of the Hilda & Charles Mason Charitable Foundation. Stefan also serves on the advisory board for Eagle Bank and the George Washington Cancer Institute, as well as the Alumni Board for Georgetown Day School.

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?”

– Magical

‎The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

An entrepreneur tends to bite off a little more than he can chew hoping he’ll quickly learn how to chew it.“


– Roy Ash, co-founder of Litton Industries

As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

– Brihadaranyaka Upanishad

The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware.”

– Henry Miller

Remove those ‘I want you to like me’ stickers from your forehead
and, instead, place them where they truly will do the most good—on your mirror.”

– Susan Jeffers

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”

– Thomas Edison

Whatever you do may seem insignificant, but it is most important that you do it.”

– Gandi

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

Find somebody to be successful for. Raise their hopes. Think of their needs.”

– Barack Obama

I always maintained that the greatest obstacle in life isn’t danger, it’s boredom. The battle against it is responsible for most of the events in the world — good or ill.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

Don’t follow your dreams. Chase them.”

– Richard Dumb

When I dare to be powerful—to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”

– Audre Lorde

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi

Ripeness is all.”

– William Shakespeare

Destiny is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”

– William Jennings Bryan

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

– Dalai Lama

Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.”

– Robert Frost

Don’t wait for someone else to lead you to your right life; that privilege—and responsibility—is yours alone.”

– Martha Beck

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.”

– Edgar W. Howe

Education is an admirable thing to have, but it is well to remember that nothing worth knowing can be taught.”

– Oscar Wilde

No matter how difficult and painful it may be, nothing sounds as good to the soul as the truth.”

– Martha Beck, from "Leaving the Saints"

Things don’t change. You change your way of looking, that’s all.”

– Carlos Castaneda

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.”

– Christopher Morley

Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. 
Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow.”

– Mary Jean Irion

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

– Joseph Campbell

The less effort, the faster and more powerful you will be.”

– Bruce Lee

Inspiration and genius — one and the same.”

– Victor Hugo

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

The important thing is not being afraid to take a chance. The greatest failure is to not try.”

– Debbi Fields, Mrs. Fields Cookies

Look at everything as though you were
seeing it either for the first or last time.
Then your time on earth will be filled with glory.”

– Betty Smith

They who give have all things. They who withhold have nothing.”

– Hindu Proverb

Don’t think. Thinking is the enemy of creativity.”

– Ray Bradbury

I was taught at a very young age that you can do whatever you want to, but you have to make it happen — not just talk about it.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”

– Madam C.J. Walker

I’m not afraid of storms,
for I’m learning to sail my ship.”

– Louisa May Alcott

Remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you’re stumped, because sometimes you really can’t be expected to handle everything alone.”

– Martha Beck

As each woman realizes her power, she transforms the world.”

– Patrice Wynne, WomanSpirit Sourcebook

Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

– Helen Keller

That man is richest whose pleasures are the cheapest.”

– Henry David Thoreau

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

Success is about finding a livelihood that brings joy, self-sufficiency, and a sense of contributing.”

– Anita Roddick

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

– Anais Nin

If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”

– Thomas Edison

Our deepest wishes are whispers of our authentic selves. We must learn to respect them. We must learn to listen.”

– Sarah Ban Breathnach

Do not say, ‘why were the former days better than these,’ for it is not from wisdom that you ask this.”

– Ecclesiastes, 7:10

Traveling is one way of lengthening life, at least in appearance.”

– Benjamin Franklin