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Attorney Lisa Hughes, Estate Planner

Attorney Lisa M. Hughes is experienced at preparing wills and trusts, powers of attorney, guardianships, and conservatorships; in administering estates of decedents and incapacitated individuals; and in the related tax and asset-protection planning. Her particular areas of focus include succession planning for closely held businesses, same-sex couples, and incapacitated beneficiaries, as well as certain elder-law challenges and trusts for those with special needs.

A graduate of Georgetown University Law Center, Hughes is licensed in the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia, and has more than two decades of experience in estates, trusts, and wealth-planning.

Additionally, Hughes is a member of the Board of Governors of the Trusts and Estates Section of the Virginia State Bar; she is a Public Safety Trainer with the Commonwealth Autism Service www.autismva.org; and she serves as legal counsel to Spectrum Housing Foundation, a tax-exempt organization that facilitates support for disabled adults.

Contact Lisa Hughes by email.

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

We never know how high we are
 till we are called to rise;
 And then, if we are true to plan,
 Our statures touch the skies.”

– Emily Dickinson

Find somebody to be successful for. Raise their hopes. Think of their needs.”

– Barack Obama

Never never never never give up.”

– Winston Churchill

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

– Dalai Lama

Everyone is a mirror image of yourself—your own thinking coming back at you.”

– Byron Katie

You don’t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.”

– L.J. Smith

Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

– Helen Keller

We need to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing ship.”

– General Omar Bradley

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.”

– Edgar W. Howe

Don’t think. Thinking is the enemy of creativity.”

– Ray Bradbury

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

– President Calvin Coolidge

Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds.”

– Thomas Dunn

A warrior cannot complain or regret anything. His life is an endless challenge, and challenges cannot possibly be good or bad. Challenges are simply challenges.”

– Carlos Castaneda

A diamond is a lump of coal that stuck with it.”

– Norwegian proverb

The awakening to the mystery of life is a revolutionary event; in it an old world is destroyed so that a new and better one may take its place.”

– J.J. Van Der Leeuw, The Conquest of Illusion

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.”

– Jesse Jackson

Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth. Tame the dragon and the gift is yours.”

– Noela Evans

I have spent a good part of my life convincing people that a blank sheet of paper is the greatest opportunity in the world, and not frightening at all.”

– Marty Skler, executive vp, Walt Disney Imagineering

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

– Charles R. Swindoll

This is the age when magical technologies make more and more radically fun ideas plausible, even easy. You’re only limited by your creativity.”

– Martha Beck

But all the while I was alone, the past was close behind, I seen a lot of women, but she never escaped my mind, and I just grew, tangled up in blue.”

– Bob Dylan

I was taught at a very young age that you can do whatever you want to, but you have to make it happen — not just talk about it.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

If you do work that you love, and the work fulfills you, the rest will come.”

– Oprah Winfrey

A great secret of success is to go through life as a man who never gets used up.”

– Albert Schweitzer

An entrepreneur tends to bite off a little more than he can chew hoping he’ll quickly learn how to chew it.“


– Roy Ash, co-founder of Litton Industries

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

– T.S. Eliot

Practice kindness all day to everybody and you will realize you’re already in heaven now.”

– Jack Kerouac

Are you willing to help other people succeed even when it’s not a requirement of your job to be of assistance?”

– Steven Schussler

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ‘Make Me Feel Important.’ Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.”

– Mary Kay Ash

The only way to compel men to speak good of us is to do it.”

– Voltaire

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

Treat the attainment of happiness in the same way an entrepreneur would approach building a business — with a vision, plan, goals, and a systematic approach.”

– Ted Leonsis

Many people prefer to play it safe when it comes to business matters. Are you willing to take risks in the pursuit of entrepreneurial success?”

– Steven Schussler

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

Spend the afternoon. You can’t take it with you.”

– Annie Dillard

No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it”

– Andrew Carnegie

Remove those ‘I want you to like me’ stickers from your forehead
and, instead, place them where they truly will do the most good—on your mirror.”

– Susan Jeffers

Remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you’re stumped, because sometimes you really can’t be expected to handle everything alone.”

– Martha Beck

Once you find something you love to do, be the best at doing it.”

– Debbi Fields, Mrs. Fields Cookies

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

Letting go of expectations is a ticket to peace. It allows us to ride over every crisis—small or large—like a beach ball on water.”

– Martha Beck

If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.”

– John Quincy Adams

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

– Albert Einstein

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing.”

– Maya Angelou

The less effort, the faster and more powerful you will be.”

– Bruce Lee