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Charlotte Safavi, Writer, Journalist, Stylist

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Charlotte Safavi has written for many publications, including The Washington Post, The British Sunday Times Magazine, House Beautiful, Victorian Homes, and Better Homes and Gardens.

She also writes a tea column for Inns magazine and regularly blogs for The Huffington Post. Articles from her blogs have been featured online in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today and on National Public Radio.

Born in London and educated at Oxford University, her heritage is Iranian, and she now resides in Northern Virginia with her husband and son. For more information, visit www.charlottesafavi.com

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

– President Calvin Coolidge

Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds.”

– Thomas Dunn

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

Letting go of expectations is a ticket to peace. It allows us to ride over every crisis—small or large—like a beach ball on water.”

– Martha Beck

Spend the afternoon. You can’t take it with you.”

– Annie Dillard

Nothing is a mistake. There’s no win and no fail. There’s only make.”

– Corita Kent

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”

– Francesca Reigle

‎No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.”

– Charles Dickens

‎Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way.”

– Booker T. Washington

Do you have the desire to create something new; the strength of conviction to believe your creation will be successful, and the reservoir of energy necessary to thrust it into the marketplace?”

– Steven Schussler

Traveling is one way of lengthening life, at least in appearance.”

– Benjamin Franklin

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leon Joseph Suenens

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.”

– Jimi Hendrix

Destiny is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”

– William Jennings Bryan

Practice kindness all day to everybody and you will realize you’re already in heaven now.”

– Jack Kerouac

If people like you they’ll listen to you; if they trust you, they’ll do business with you.”

– Zig Ziglar

The awakening to the mystery of life is a revolutionary event; in it an old world is destroyed so that a new and better one may take its place.”

– J.J. Van Der Leeuw, The Conquest of Illusion

If you think you are too small to make a difference, try going to sleep with a mosquito in your room.”

– A wisdomism

Some things are destined to be—it just takes us a couple of tries
to get there.”

– J.R. Ward, Lover Mine

I find out what the world needs, then I proceed to invent.”

– Thomas Edison

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

Don’t wait for someone else to lead you to your right life; that privilege—and responsibility—is yours alone.”

– Martha Beck

Women once had the goal of being Superwoman; I think most of us now simply strive to have a super day.”

– Author, Activist Lee Woodruff

Don’t follow your dreams. Chase them.”

– Richard Dumb

Remove those ‘I want you to like me’ stickers from your forehead
and, instead, place them where they truly will do the most good—on your mirror.”

– Susan Jeffers

If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”

– Anna Quindlen

We need to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing ship.”

– General Omar Bradley

Nobody talks about entrepreneurship as survival, but that’s exactly what nurtures creative thinking.”

– Anita Roddick, founder, The Body Shop

Permanence, perseverance and persistence in spite of all obstacles distinguishes the strong soul from the weak.”

– Thomas Carlyle

Sometimes the dreams that come true are the dreams you never even knew you had.”

– Alice Sebold, The Lovely Bones

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

Our deepest wishes are whispers of our authentic selves. We must learn to respect them. We must learn to listen.”

– Sarah Ban Breathnach

‎The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

How do you stay resilient? It’s about momentum. Like riding a bicycle. If you stop you fall over. So I keep pedaling.”

– Diane Lane

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Most people never pick up the phone and call. Most people never ask, and that’s what separates the people who do things from the people who just dream about them.”

– Steve Jobs

Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost.”

– Robert H. Schuller

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

We are perfectionists. We are hungry to work all the time. We are entertained by every aspect of business and we never want to stop working.”

– Suzy Welch

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leo Jozef Suenens

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.”

– Charles Dickens

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi